We ought to try and enjoy everything in life, good life, good food, good people, god things and etc.
but sometimes it just doesn't happen as we plan, we wish, we pray, or whatever way we beg for.
but what to do? we just have to have it/ stuck with it/ shove it, in whatever way we say.
there is this saying in the bible saying that god would not let us go through troublesome that we couldn't overcome, maybe we just have to be like this person with the name Job in the bible who bring the spirit of "Bon Appetit " in whatever that come down to him. He always believe that the God had it's own will which is good, like the chef in the restaurant that always ought to bring out the best and say "Bon Appetit everyone".
sometimes when we feel that we are in misery(which maybe we are not) we need a mentor, like Julia to Julie(imaginary friend),a real life friend. we need supports, we need a good listening ear, a shoulder to cry on, a love on to hug on, a pillow to cry on(when you can't get a shoulder like i always do), some truth/scolding to wake us up, a total stranger, or just simply a good movie to tell you to get a life.(it may hurt, but it sure will make u stronger and fruitful)
and for me, whatever misery, trouble you are in, don't stay alone, get it out, get all you need and just move on(even though sometimes, we just have no ideas where should we go, we got lost, we did something stupid, but it just going to be A-O-K. I don't know how long it may take, days, months or even years but if we strive, then sure there will be a way(coz they say "god will make a way, when there seems to be no way", and if you don't believe that it will get better 99% it won't).
So from the friend of yours that still live in a mess and misery(compare to you), Bon Appetit everyone, enjoy your day and live a good life. Like Eric(Julie's husband in Julie & Julia) said "at least it is not the end of the world" and i mean it literally.
Love you guys, and especially to my friend that just grad and move on to another stage of life (which i haven't) enjoy the new life as workers, boss, unemployed for a while or anything it may be because maybe it is something that is once in a lifetime. it maybe just like cooking for Julia. something that goes with you for a lifetime, enjoy every moment of life because it is just custom made for you(whatever your name is). and don't stop the search for the good things that is waiting for you(a good lifetime partner, a job that just suit you, marriage, kids, new friends, and what so ever that you want)
lets enjoy all of our day together
Bon Appetit
